Love Standards


Once upon a time… My friend Chelsea and I after being hurt and not dating the guys we deserve, collaborated to make a list of rules and standards which we think we should apply to the people we date. Now we have decided to share them with you:


  1.  if they do not give you the time of day, why give them some of yours?
  2. if someone is truly interested in you, you will talk to them almost everyday. if it’s been more than 2 days and you haven’t heard from them move on.
  3. they need to have goals and aspirations that are actually attainable and have a plan on how they are going to reach those goals.
  4. have a job!
  5. if you are the one that has to drive them around and drop them off, they will take you for granted.
  6. actions speak louder than words ALWAYS. watch what they do don’t listen to what they say.
  7. if they break promises, break it off
  8. if they say that they are going to do something make sure they do it. if not move on. You don’t need that crap in your life.
  9. who you surround yourself with reflects you. make sure that the crowd you’re in is actually doing good things with their lives.

3 thoughts on “Love Standards

  1. Carol says:

    That’s great advice. I agree with every point and think that if we all started holding guys to that standard, maybe they’d smarten up and realize they need to treat us better if they want to be in a loving relationship.

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